Adoption is not a single event in a person’s life. It is an ongoing event, as it continues to impact the life of those involved. Adults of adoption often question our value, struggle with vulnerability and relationships, and feel out of place. We’re frequently over achievers, perfectionists, and our own worst critic. We’re searching for a place to rest and belong.
Adoption likely amplifies our reactions to life’s events such as the start or end of a relationship, the birth of a child, health issues, reunion with biological family members, or the loss of a adopted parent. Our partners, friends and family, and even ourselves, are often caught off guard by the intensity and sudden eruption of emotions. In short, adoption has created a more complicated life for an adoptee and continues to exert influence over our responses.
For the Adopted Individual: I work from a relational and somatic framework, allowing you to safely explore and connect the pieces. As an adopted person myself, I understand firsthand the layers of identity, belonging, and grief that can come with this journey. This isn’t just a specialty for me—it’s personal. It drives me to create a space where you feel seen and understood, untangle the confusion and push/pull inside, and bring to light the lifelong impact of your adoption story. In fact, this is why I became a therapist.
For Family Members: I offer consultations to spouses, adoptive parents, and family members of adult adoptees so they can better understand the people they love.
For Professionals: I offer consultations and trainings so therapists can add depth to their knowledge of the complex realities adoptees face, so they, too, can provide the support that’s needed.
Below are some great resources on learning more about the adoption experience:
- Adoption Knowledge Affiliates
An Austin-based organization which provides support to all those in the adoption constellation and a yearly conference on adoption. - Adoptees On
A fantastic podcast about adoption as well as providing a resources page with articles, books, and videos. - Lecture on Adoption by Paul Sunderland
an introduction to the inherent trauma in being relinquished (YouTube video) - Seven Core Issues in Adoption and Permanency
Article on the impact of adoption on adoptees
