EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, NARM, INPB
For those struggling with trauma, finding relief and “feeling better” can seem like an overwhelming endeavor. However, I assure you, change can happen, you can become “unstuck.” As an experienced trauma therapist I offer a empathetic, non-judgemental approach and use modalities focused on trauma resolution and long-lasting healing. You don’t have to be held hostage by the past.
The past is the past – but trauma is about the residues of the past in your current system.
Trying to talk it out is often not enough as trauma lives in the body as well as the memory. Our experiences are stored in our physical, emotional, thinking self and thus each must be engaged and reintegrated. I use NARM (Neuroaffective Relational Model), Somatic Experiencing, IPNB, and EMDR to process trauma and restore your body’s inherent capacity to self-regulate and heal. You’ll move towards release and healing through exploring your survival strategies as a result of trauma, experiencing and tracking how your body harbors and regulates stress, and discovering agency.
Too Much, Too Soon, Too Fast
Not every traumatic event becomes stored trauma. Trauma can result from any incident where you perceived that you or someone else was in danger, and your ability to protect or escape was limited or unavailable. Often these events are sudden and you had little or no power or influence. Dual impulses, such as running to save oneself and wanting to stay or fight to help another can result in trauma.
Recognizing trauma and learning to move forward.
It’s not necessarily the event itself that causes trauma but the resulting symptoms and inability to be present in life that plagues us. Witnessing or being the victim of violence, accidents or attacks, military service, adoption, abandonment, prolonged chaos or abuse, or a sudden life change, any of these, can push us into trauma. Meaning, your nervous system and brain are responding to the past rather than to the present moment as it is unfolding. Often times, resulting in being either stuck on, or stuck off.
You are not holding on to your past.
Your past is holding on to you.
What makes healing trauma so difficult is when you can’t recover quickly or shake the event. I often hear clients say “I’m broken, I’m weak, why can’t I just get over it?”. It is important to remember, everyone responds to experiences differently. Events that may be traumatic to one person, may not be traumatic for another person.
As you have probably discovered, trauma isn’t just stored in our memories it’s stored in the body. This is why reason doesn’t always lead to release. Trauma energy needs to be processed through an embodied approach.
Trauma can disrupt your life in a variety of ways.
- fatigue, pain, stomach issue, sleep issues
- inability to sit still or feeling on-edge all the time, easily startled
- feeling drowned with sadness, grief, aggression, anxiety, or guilt
- difficulty connecting deeply with others, poor boundaries
- emotional outbursts or “irrational” behaviors
- intrusive memories or flashbacks
- increased alcohol or drug use, sometimes as a form of “self medication”
- difficulty being in the present or concentrating
- difficulty being touched, sensitivity to light, irritation with clutter or obsession to clean
If any of this sounds familiar, reach out to me and lets talk about how you might be able to find movement and become unstuck.